Love. Based on a or any dictionary, it means a special feeling one will have towards an opposite sex. But what is the true meaning of love? Is it really like what the dictionary says? Or is it much more than that?
Looking at the video and how others may see it, love is definitely much more than the declared statement in the dictionary. Love is, of course, about loving somebody. A feeling of special comfort being with somebody. Being with the person just makes you feel you are on cloud nine. You are in your own world. Nothing in the world can bring you back down except for that special someone. It is a feeling so good that no one wished to let go of it. Then again, sometimes we couldn't explain why we loved someone so much. Why he or she seems to be the most outstanding one in the crowd? No words can fully explain such a simple feeling. Maybe its just... "The imperfections in them that makes them the perfect one in your eyes"
Then again, sometimes a relationship just don't last. In simpler or layman terms, it is a break-up. An event no one wish to face at all. Not even once. The hurt one might feel will be too deep to be healed. Sometimes we even ask ourselves, "why did it turn out like this?". Then, we blame our partners. Yet, not realising that maybe the fault lies within us. Every action, there is definitely a clear explaination or reasoning for it. Like i say, no one wants a break-up, same goes for those who initiated. Maybe they felt how we might have felt.
The question is: How do we find the truths behind the break-up? Well, it is actually pretty simple. We just need to rewind back the film of our lives and press the play button again to see what has gone wrong. Even a small action like saying "are you okay?" plays a very significant role. Learning from these mistakes, we will then be able to know how jerky we might have been in the past and of course, learn from it. Well, like they say, "an ugly ducking can't turn into a bautiful swan ovrnight" Just like us, it takes time for one to turn from an all-rounder jerk to a more "proper" man or woman.
The unfortunate and unfair truth is changing doesn't mean everything will be back how it used to be. Sometimes it may but most of the times, it won't happen the way you want it. And that means, letting go even if it is the hardest thing to do.
Therefore, I come to a simple conclusion. Love is not all about the process. True love is when one is willing to let go of that special one and do whatever it takes to make them happy, even if it means leaving their life and making that heart bleed more and more by the day.
"Women wish to be loved not because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves." - Henri Frederic Amiel
"if i has to choose between loving you, and breathing. I would use my last breath to say I LOVE YOU." - dani B
